It's as if you are saying "If I'm 'decent' to my son and the effort doesn't get my wife back, then is it worth it? B/C after all, my real goal (getting my wife back) is all I care about, so what's the point?"
That's how it comes across, Bruce. Like the whole idea of you spending time with your son is a charade and a ruse all just to get time with HER, or to have more in common with HER...and
the fact is that may not happen. Ever. The most you might ever have in common is that you both care a lot about this young man.
But now I have to question even that.
I worry that if you knew your wife would not come back to you, ever,
you'd rather not bother with being an involved dad, b/c it's inconvenient and "not rewarding enough" to you.
-- That in reality, you'd really prefer being across the ocean, just sending a check every month and seeing him a few weeks a year --- when he's older, and easier...?
is that accurate? Bruce, dig deep.
What is most important to you?
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