Nail, I am right there with you friend. It is wrong for her to "make" you move out when you don't want to, and Bond is right - see your L about it. I get you on the threats too. My H has a way of turning everything around to make me into the bad guy. It is a form of intimidation/control.

If you do S you may find it somewhat I a relief to be away from that on a daily basis. At least, that is what I am looking forward to. I know in my heart that things will never improve without some time apart. It is sad but probably the best thing right now.

Everyone seems to be at the same place today - exhausted with their sitches and ready for a break.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page