don't make long-term decisions based on how you feel now. right now it is hard to battle the emotions; let them just go over you like a wave at the ocean, and remind yourself that gradually these emotions will decrease (if you allow them to - don't do things that increase resentment).
and if your husband is remorseful and trying to make you feel better, don't push him away or make him feel that his efforts are for nothing. you can tell him that you appreciate his efforts but right now it is hard for you to not feel emotional; and you hope that gradually you will be able to rebuild your relationship as the emotions will gradually subside.
did you read the chapter about infidelity in "Divorce Remedy"?
