My H invited the OW to Christmas dinner at his parents. I was horrified and so hurt. I still think about that and, in my non-MLC, non-alcoholic mind, that's only something you do when you are really serious about someone. He said "It was just dinner."
Anyway, your sitch gives me hope.
I'm happy for you.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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