An onion, dance lessons and a Harley II

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And my post was not a rant against you, just as I said, food for thought. If we don't look at our automatic behaviors, and figure out why we do what we do, we can't change.

The key is to be mindful, thoughtful, not reactive but rather responsive

Now you've revealed there have been other dynamics, she was physically abusive. That's tough to take but sometimes there are deep issues with our Ss that they are unwilling or unable to fix.

So we're back to working on the only person we can change, ourselves.