H texted me last night telling me he was ok, spent the weekend analyzing his thoughts . Told me what he thought to the question to him.. What do you want from me. I let him talk.. Accuray, I believe you are correct in that we both neglected each other, which led to this affair. He did call again, and we talked, told I believed he left, he asked why.. I said to due to the events off the last week , first her call, emails, then your job, then MIA. He said he always comes home. I still do not know where we are going, as I do believe any contact with the OW is a continual threat to me. But I know that as he is aware of how I feel about that and that will never change for me.
H works out of town for extended periods of time and comes home on days off.. Well until this year with the OW involved. He hasn't technically left the home.. Ie: packed his bags and left.. But still isn't home much.
