EA, Separation, PA, Recon, Divorce and Hope

[MrBond]

I didn't say that you blame her for it. I said that you're letting her affect you. You are allowing it. YOU are Allowing the misery in your life.

You also have the choice to not be miserable. There are a ton of people who have coped with more. Those with cancer, medical conditions, poverty, death. You have much to be grateful for. Start looking at the positives rather than the negatives in life. Go volunteer at a Children's Cancer ward. Even in the midst of pain and fear, there's hope and happiness.

Despair takes those who allow themselves to be taken.