Hrm134 is a poster here and one of her "themes" or "signs" for her H's mood was whether or not he put his toothbrush near hers, in the holder, not in the holder, etc... :0 She has the best sense of humor.
My W lost all sense of humor (well, almost all) just before BD, and she REALLY has no sense of humor for anything related to her, us, the marriage, nada right now...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm