One more thing I was thinking about, her financial situation. She is currently living under my roof (different home) and I am continuing to pay for her vehicle insurance and health insurance, through our family busines. She has very limited income and has been spending her money on going out and socializing. I have made it perfectly clear that this arrangement is temporary, based on how our situation progresses. While she is very concerned that I will someday toss her out, she is not by ANY means securing her own wellfare. It's like it isn't dawning on her how serious her situation will be if/when that DAY comes. That is not her character to be careless like that....again, very odd to me.


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8