I am glad you are going and at least he is too. I can't get my W to try. She is like your H and says no hope and those are the same 2 options word for word she said. Now she chose the latter 8 months ago. She says she does not love me anymore. Suppose that is one big difference between our sitches is that my W admits she loved me so much and for so many years until the last couple years.
Too much damage she says. Too much hurt. No trust even though she had the A. I think she refers to trust with her heart but never said that.
Good luck with RV and at least he will go so take that as a positive and let them help open his mind. Don't pressure him anymore or even talk about it. Just go. You and I have no influence on our spouses right now.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
