17 days since talking to W. has my 180/LRT ticked her off more? Is it coming across as mean? I am too afraid to approach her on anything. I give off the impression I don't care and don't look at her or say anything and she does the same. We do split chores and deal with kids without speaking. Just do our thing and make notes on the calendar. We eat at the table for dinner often and talk and look at the kids but nit each other across the table. Last night I was joking with the kids and she finished and got up, put her plate away and went to her room and closed the door to work without saying a word to the kids all night. this often is the scene. The tension you can feel though I feel I have less these days. Just anxious about kids and legal. Wish this weren't the course. Would rather just make up. She cannot let go of the anger and bitterness.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.