WH, I can attest to what snodderly is saying. In the earlier days of my MLC'r, she wasn't sleeping well. She couldn't sit still, always jumpy. She had stomach issues. Basically guilt and conflict issues looking back. The depression is there. They are out of harmony with their actions/words/thoughts/feelings. Not to sound all new-agey, but that's a good way to describe it.
He's miserable and feels like he cannot win. Ironically, the one person that would help him, you, he won't allow. To be honest, he won't allow anyone to help if they could. He is in his own prison and has the key.
Try to keep yourself healthy and rested. You can't both be like that, else it's incredibly toxic. More so
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
