Oh, what was on his list?

And I'll ask a question that a wise poster asked me when I first got on the board: Why do you want to be married to your H?

If you were single and looking for a R now, would he (and his family) fit the bill?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss