I'm not sure what your question is. Irregardless of what everyone thinks, it's still your W's decision to engage or not. Whether or not she does so is up to her. No amount of speculation matters.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER