I am a little nervous because W is back in contact with therapist friend of hers--- I don't think she is a good influence because she does not look at family as being an important focus....more important that you expeirence life to the fullest...don't let your family get in the way of that...etc...
Yeah, but anyone that gets your wife talking is beneficial. She needs to explore her thoughts and emotions. Sometimes having someone tell the WAS that they need to just completely let go is the trigger that makes them think that maybe that's not what they really want. So you never know. It's not worth worrying about.
Denver said that after his W returned he found out the people in her circle that he trusted the least turned out to be the ones that were pushing her towards reconciliation.
