Next Step, Moving On

[dorightman]

Good point Stander!
I'am trying to make a decision about whether I should stay here in the house, or move. I know that everyone says that I should stay, but my w says that if I don't leave , she will take the kids and leave. She then says that I would not be acting like a man because I would be displacing the kids by not moving out. I don't know whether she's bluffing or not, and I think she's the one thats displacing the kids because she's the waw.
I'am also considering the fact that as long as I'm around, she will not look at herself because I'm always there for her to blame. If I move away for a couple months, maybe she would be forced into looking at herself and her anger and resentment.

Then again, she says and acts like she has no love for me at all and it doesn't feel like she'll have a change of heart. It really feels over and I question why I want to be with a person that doesn't love me.