Thanks. We are also going this weekend. I am going in with an open heart, just lacking the open mind right now because of the arguments H and I got in this weekend. He spilled his guts to me about how he never loved me, this will never work etc. He refuses to read the book divorce remedy because how could a book help us if they dont know us.
He doesn't think that the old relationship ever goes away. He thinks he only has 2 options: 1. Stay in the marriage where he will be miserable but the kids will be happy or 2. Leave the marriage hope the kids will be happy because he will be happy. He doesn't realize that there is a 3 rd option of staying and building a new marriage. I mentioned it to him and he that's not an option.
I am so sad, angry and frustrated. I feel he us do blind to everything right now
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14
