However, I think Retrouvaille insists there are no 3rd parties involved (no current A going on). They may even call to confirm this is the case.
That is correct, my W and I are going this weekend and they called me over the weekend for the interview. The only question they ask is "are you willing to participate in this program and all the follow-up meetings?" If you answer "yes" to that, then they read several statements. One is that if you're involved with a 3rd party then they ask that you break it off before going. So they don't call to confirm whether or not there's an A, nor do they ask you about it, they just read a statement that if there is an A it needs to be stopped before the program weekend.
Originally Posted By: AM2012
I keep hearing how retrouvaille talks about what it was like when you first got married. To rediscover. Well our sex life wasn't great then either and he feels we never had a good relationship. He said we got married because it seemed like the right thing to do as we had been dating for 4 years prior. We have no foundation to build on, how can we make it?
Just let go of all your preconceptions of what RetroV is. Go in with an open mind and open heart. That's all they ask.
In DB'ing terms you're not trying to go back to your previous marriage, you're trying to create a new, better marriage. So even if your old marriage was never that great, it doesn't mean your future one can't be.
