Threadjack....Wow, AS, I am not there yet-what was the thought process behind beginning to date?
Spartan...am running half in May...first one...hate running lmao!! Funny thing is H said he was running ten in same race with GF...I said fine, just as long as you are not at same hotel thank you!! :P
I am in same place as you, have no desire to look elsewhere, but who knows what can blindside you
I do the same thing. I don't mention D, don't facilitate or start any discussions of anything pertaining to mediation etc. I contacted my lawyer to have papers ready at an instant if ever necessary, but trust H, whether for good or bad, it's a 180 for me and very hard. He has never doe me wrong, so I should at least, in my sitch, give him the benfit he deserves.
H is also PT, and lack of ML in our marriage drove him to this point of leaving. Hindsight is 20/20 I guess, mine are AoS and WoA. I didn't get that either so it was not a huge surprise that it fizzled out. Funnily though, now separated, we give the LLs. Well, me not his since he has GF, but he knows I would. I try to touch him whenever possible, friendly, or hugs etc. It's the limit of what I can do
