Hi Regretful,

Your description of your H's behaviour really amused me. It's so comforting to know that my H isn't the only one up to his shenanigans.

Did both things bug you? Did you manage not to comment when he ate some cheesecake?

My H has a real weakness for cheesecake. Maybe my H can take your H out to his favourite cheesecake place when he's in London! wink

How about not relinquishing the MBR when he gets back?

Just hang in there. Your sitch will keep evolving. Don't worry about how committed your H is. Just worry ab yourself.

Take care.

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012