Marriage is a mess

[Marriageblues]

I've just started reading "Divorce Busting". I'm a couple of chapters into it. Now I have an important question. My wife has been sleeping in the guest room for a couple of weeks now. I've tried hard to keep our twin, 5 year-old daughters from realizing this. But this morning, one of my girls told me she knows Mommy is sleeping in the guest room. I asked her why she thinks that, and she said Mommy told her that last night. Now I'm furious with W, and I want so hard to give her an earful about how I don't want the girls to think we don't love each other, yada yada.

But I know that I shouldn't give her an earful, because that would be counter-productive. But I want to do something. Young kids that age are very impressionable, and I don't want to do anything that would make them feel their lives are in upheaval. I know that children can be very vulnerable to feelings like this.