Subguy, this interests me in your previous post my W never had to work, what does that mean? Did she really do nothing for 23 years?
I went back to your first thread trying to find her complaints about you and didn't find anything.
What are her complaints?
What I meant by that was she never had to have a job outside the home, if she did work it was for extra spending money. She worked/works really hard, that was/is not a complaint on my part.
What are her complaints?? Thats part of the problem, she will not tell me. I asked her what she was unhappy about and she said she could not point to any one thing in particular. She told the counselor that she did not like to discuss her feelings, that she was horrible at it.
With that being said all I have to go on are arguments we have had. I do not listen to her. I am obsessed with money (not sure why on this one). I do not show emotion.
I have come up with a list of things i would like to change based on my opinions of me and our relationship as well. I can post those again if you'd like to see them.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
