Subguy, this interests me in your previous post
my W never had to work,
what does that mean? Did she really do nothing for 23 years?

I went back to your first thread trying to find her complaints about you and didn't find anything.

What are her complaints?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss