Just remember, what he wants is to hurt you--and that's because HE feels so sh!tty. This man hasn't shown any indication that he wants the REALITY of parenting and your Judge didn't sound dumb enough to fall for the act.
YOu're doing great! Keep being the grown up!
:-)
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson