Thank you asadgirl, i found much comfort in your words. I too believe it will take me years. I dont know if it will ever be completely over. I also have the broken dreams. Our second son will marry this July, and our first son and his wife will give us our first grandchild in 7 months. I had dreamed of us going through these blessed events together. That is shattered now. Now he will be there. It will not be fun. But it is what it is. Does anyone win in divorce?
