Not only do they not think there is anything wrong with them, but they think that they have had a great enlightenment and now see clearly, and are finally on a sensible path.

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I truthfully don't want to be married to the Monster that has taken over H and I know that he will never be the same when this process is complete. I feel like divorce is a reversible process and maybe that's what needs to happen now as much as I am on the fence about it. There are moments when I just want it done and moments when I feel like I could wait for all of this to pass.


If you detach enough there is no reason for you to file, unless you are in a big hurry to move on. You can separate your life from his without ending the M.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl