What I'm learning from H stages, disappointment.

[LoisB]

I've been reading the situation and hang in there Dawn. You can do this! I know the pain your talking about when you just want to disappear and fall into a puddle of tears, but you can't. It stinks. Put your heart first, but don't make any rash decisions. Think it through with help from these boards, friends and family. Not-H is a sick guy, but you're getting better. It's getting easier for me to handle the OW and all that brings with it. Strangely, looking inward at myself and my own problems with being abandoned have made her look increasingly less important in my life. Facing the pain and fear somehow makes it go away.

Much Love,

Heather