Yes, I did get the welcome message and it SEEMS like MLC, but maybe not so text book.
Now, H says he's moving out as soon as he can find an affordable place. We have been living in limbo since 10-11 and he said for a while he didn't know what he wanted. Then, when the crazies hit around Thanksgiving and he started thinking things through he decided that was it - he was done and didn't want to be married at all. Talked about moving out, but nothing developed.
A week ago, he was talking about cleaning/organizing the garage and building a deck. Now, he hates me and we're never reconciling - EVER (from him).
He carries so much pain from his childhood and we have had hard times in our marriage as well. In a counseling session soon after BD, all of the emotions he's had stuffed down for over 25 yrs came bubbling to the surface. The counselor told him he could choose to work through these things or not. He says he's decided NOT. Praying every day that something will reach him.
H42 M42 S11, D8, D6 M 18 T 25 BD 10-11 H 2nd MLC in progress (1st interrupted) H Still home but doesn't want to be
