Dawn, We do not want to rush the process for the mlcers. It's best to take it nice and slow so that they don't miss one step along the way of healing. I know you are frustrated and it's been getting to you, but the ups and downs will speed up and eventually everything will level out. Cut yourself some slack and do something nice for yourself today. You've been fighting the monster by yourself, time to drop the rope and allow your h to face his demons on his own time table.
Hang in there. The road will be a bumpy one, so strap in and get ready for the bumps as they come along.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
