An onion, dance lessons and a Harley II

[eyesopen]

Subguy,

Awhile back I had this feeling that something was changing in myself, a few days later, for the first time in my life I believe I experienced true forgiveness. It felt like a huge weight had been lifted.

Since then there has been days where the I feel the nudge of anger and resentment. I am able to brush those feelings to the side and continue to move forward.

A few days ago I posted about a backslide that happened with my W. D talk came up, and it seems to be the only thing that ruffles my feathers. The days prior to that I had been feeling really good, and then bam, a down day. Since then I am back to where I was and maybe even a few steps higher on the ladder. Two steps forward, one step back.

I guess what I am trying to say is trust yourself and trust in this process. I think if we truly are trying to let go and grow as individuals, then forgiveness is a natural step in the process.

Way to go with the riding lessons. I had a bike before our son was born, and they can be so much fun. It is one of those things that is on my goal list. I would love to ride again, especially after watching "Sons of Anarchy". Maybe there are enough of us here we could start the DBMC. Divorce Busting Motorcycle Club