I have twice asked my H to leave. He refused. So I'm getting myself ready to leave. But that's going to take quite some time due to financial concerns
Hi mizjjd - thanks so much for posting, I feel so all alone with this vampire in my home. Especially this morning after yesterday, and just min ago watching my 3S's, who are great guys, take their GF's on a week vacation to a cozy lodge in WIs.
It's just me and D18 here and I'm sure she's off to BF's house for bowling and a movie as soon as she rises from her slumber.
I have asked not-H to leave about 10x, honestly the last 3 were my serious voice one's but it still didn't work.
I really think he needs to not see me, or have my "home" food, comfort, luxuries (as they are) to return to. I hate him on my couch, eating my cooking, this morning I wanted to push my d's yogurt container down his throat as he sits like a spoiled F*ing self centered brat watching movies all day.
Can't make him leave, can't push small plastic container into his wind pipe, can't kill him outright! Well, moving out has been on my mind very much!
How easy it would be to leave, leave the state which I hate anyway, and work on myself in piece. Financial concerns are the worst. I'm working on at least making debt gone, and putting away everything into savings in order to finally feel financially confident if I need to force not-H out.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
