And now, H neice ( she married his nephew), has called me, sayign her H is havign an emotional affair online,that he no longer loves her, etc etc, she wanted me to talk to her H. said NO, but I will help you with all of this.On what NOT to do...hell I could write a book on what NOT to do. I havent' said anything about my situation, not sure if I will, only a handful know, but I will help her. Give her access to this site, books, etc. Hell, might help me out...ironic really. LMAO