"You say you care about me and love me, but you purposely try to hurt me through our kids?"

i think, if you keep him from participating in this baby (appts., birth), he will see it as more of the same and that you haven't changed.

he said the fundamental problem in your marriage was how you treated people you felt were not on your "team".

do you want him to feel differently about you or are you finished trying to save your M?

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing