My W does goto counseling for awhile now. Yes I know we are not in piecing. I don't even consider us reconciling. SOMETIMES I think we "piece" before we reconcile, and sometimes I think we decide we WANT to reconcile -- and then we "piece it together", getting new tools and finding our way...sometimes in the dark.
When we finally "get it" enough, we know we have actually reconciled, and that we are restoring our marriage or rebuilding it,
so that's it more than it was before.
Which means it's more than merely reconciling, you know?
Maybe it's semantics.
I'm just enjoying the conversations we are having. Like we are friends. Joking and I plan on continuing to work on me
^^^ GOOD IDEA!!!!! Be Here Now. Stay in the present. No worries!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
