And by the way . . . I don't really think you can save your marriage . . . as much as we all want to or wanted to. It's about the mental state of the WAS and not you. What DB does . . . is help us all cope with getting on with our lives . . . and I thank all of you SO much. DB kept me semi-sane during the worst of times. Did it save my marriage? No. Did it help me cope? Yes.
