Lost the battle. Won the war. D in 06. Cried every day for 18 months. Really long, hard struggle. What I finally learned is that this divorce you are facing is more about him than it is about you. DB helped me cope. Did it bust my D? Not at all. Six years later - finally . . . I am whole again. There really IS life after divorce . . . and I'm thrilled to say . . . a great one!