AD, we're with ya. Don;t forget the little 'tone' comments are the result of the greater tension and stress. Don;t worry too much about the little spats and 180 them....like the lax practice. It'll make dealing with the bigger issues easier. (yes, I need to heed my own advoce too).
Getting an understanding of ADD will help to deal with it. It is mre common than one thinks. There is headway being made.
Blesses to you and you mom for recovery.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.