This is a ridiculous question, but am I the only one that sees dates written down on paper and thinks of them in terms of pre-BD or post-BD? Or also in my case, pre-death of H's BFF or post-death? My life in 2012 has several segments and compartments. January-BFF murder, BFF murder-"I'm unhappy", Unhappy-bomb drop and post BD. It's weird. I hate that I've segmented my life like that but somehow, it feels necessary. Maybe I'll know when I've really started healing when I think of things like I used to, which is the age of my kids. Anyone else do this in their heads too?

You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
-Christopher Robin to Pooh

Romans 12:12 Rejoice in your hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer.