Have faith in yourself and in God. You've got a good head on your shoulders and once you have the information from a lawyer, you'll be able to plan from there.
Run the credit report and be sure to print it out and keep it in in a safe place.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
