Court. No, I haven't got a good reason NOT to go. She said last night that "after discussing it with my lawyer and my SIL we decided it didn't matter if you went" I have no clue why it would even matter.
I have a serious question. I have done some research that has really shocked me with the results. There seem to be a TON of people who are in my situation that the spouse has been on paxil or other SSRI's. Mine has been on Celexa since about June. This all started about 2 months after. NOW? She shows every symptom people are talking about. I'm going to post some links if it's ok to where people are talking about this.
Actually I'll stop there because I can't remember if this is allowed or not.
What are opinions of you guys here? There definitely seems to be something to this. I have spoke with a few people, on both sides of this ordeal and they all seem to think my wife's problems are the Celexa. Hence why she said PRIOR that everything was fine with us and marriage and AFTER the celexa... it all changed. Even she says she doesn't know what changed, just that it has.
thanks.
And yes, I will continue to work on myself and my 180 appearances around her. I'll also cut down the invites.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.