So what can "I" do to influence or what impact can I have on her to not have fear of losing face? I would be losing face too, but I don't care or am not concerned about that. In fact, it would be looked upon in a positive light anyway, no? Sometimes I think she is looking for pats on the back at how she was able to make it on her own. Like her own little success story. Well, honestly speaking she would not be able to if she were not getting half my assets and accumulated wealth. That was my hard work.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
