Another thing that seems worth mentioning: There has been, over the last few months, a steady increase the amount of time she ascribes to marital problems (and magnitude). At the start of MC it was little annoyances and by this week it was unresolvable things ("it is just his personality and will never change"). I think the moment I really knew that she was in full-blown MLC mode was when she started saying "always" in this week's MC session. We've steadily moved from a few weeks to a few months to a few years and now "always".
Hearing always helped me to see just how far into rewriting history she's gone. ____________________________ "In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer." -- Albert Camus
Me:39 WAW:38 M:9 T:19, No Kids EA/PA with co-worker:9/24, ILYBINILWY, S:9/25 EA/PA ongoing, MC 9/30-1/10
