No I haven't . My sisters friend thinks I should not keep the house because of cost and upkeep but I am talkin to the lawyer. From what I heard my h say, he was giving ow advice to dump her boyfriend because my h "knows what he wants and it's her" so he is telling her he doesn't like boyfriend cuz he is is biased and h is jealous. Also said h's family will support him if he divorces and hooks up with someone. Now his mom still doesn't know bout affair but sis does and she told him don't have a relationship (meaning any romance until this is over . She doesn't know he is talkin to ow now. But she is usually straight laced. Blood is thicker than water.