On the negative side, W is still regularly talking to OM. I saw that he was texting her last night and this morning I saw that she had deleted it. I actually mentioned it and she lied about it, and when I called her out, she said "I didn't say I didn't talk to him, I said I didn't remember."
I know it has to be hard since W is acting like everything is great and you guys are doing things together but are you really ok with this?
OM was an EA, and she still talks to him thru work, but I am pretty sure he wants to keep the EA going, so no, I'm not ok with it. When we last discussed it, W went on and on about how much business she'd lose if she cut contact completely and I said something along the lines of "I know it can't be immediate, but I would like you to start working on an exit strategy." I've also told her I would not be in a M where he is involved in any shape or form.
With all that said, we really are both stuck until the house sells so on some level I wonder if she's just making the best of it. She has a strong need to "get along" and the way we're living now is a lot easier (and fun) than sleeping in separate rooms and having tension.
Originally Posted By: Inside Out
And 2 years? PFFFT....flash in the pan boy....I think I will be settling in beside you lol!
Hah! Thanks for stopping by Ruby and it really has gone by fast. I told her a while back that if this was her not knowing what she wants, I'd take it for another 40-50 years.
