Just throwing it out there but could the fact that her image is so important that she feels we are so down the path of splitting that she would look bad if she were to turn around? Pride at play? Looking unstable? Too much under the bridge to look back? Does this happen to people if hypothetically there is no OM anymore?
I still have a court date Monday for a similar reason. It's not the image so much as it took her so much strength to actually decide to D, that I think she's afraid to let it go. Maybe she's afraid she'll lose that strength. She has told me in the past that once her family makes a decision, they stick to it, for good or bad so I think that's at play as well.
