Your h sounds like a little boy wanting mom (you) to take care of his problems. He's the one that created this mess and he really should be the one to face the music...but you can't protect him forever and to me, now is as good a time as any for him to face his parents.
What do you want to do? I know what I would do...but it's your call.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
