Hi PeterP. Been a long while. There was another thread by GreyMeadow that expressed some of the same things. You may want to have a look. I think it might help to read that.
But you're right, there is no understanding. There may never be understanding. Sometimes there is, silently, and sometimes there is with a "I get it, and I'm sorry" kind of thing. Sometimes it never happens. Can't worry about which is which, but I totally get the feeling that "if I could just reason with..." or "...can't you see how that doesn't make sense!??!" But they don't seem to be able to, PeterP.
Peace,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
