I did start smoking in June. Had not smoked tobacco since well before we met 20 years ago. She hates smokers/smoking. Not a good health habit but it has been pacifying. How stupid eh? She is sooo not impressed. Gotta quit...for me and kids of course. I am so healthy otherwise with food, weight, exercise etc. no alcohol in almost 12 years.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.