Snodderly and kml...I think I get it. It goes against what I thought I was supposed to be doing but I certainly can do all of the above. I do have a life without him but I've hung close during this time because I was worried about him and his behavior. When the OW appeared and he told me that he was going to go visit her I knew I should have reacted in the obvious way and told hin to buy a one way ticket!

What I have the most trouble with is the depression. I can't help him, I know that but I feel like I need to be sympathetic to him at the same time. When he tells me he's not depressed I tell him that it wouldn't hurt to go to the Dr. to find out why he feels tired, lost weight and can't sleep. Do I stop making suggestions and just let him figure it out himself?

Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama