Meh, I played victim at first, but realized it was rather an injustice lol! But that took three months of looking at a Ruby I really didn't want to look at too closely.
But that and the subsequent OW after a month of separation, really put everyone on sides, and mostly not his. To H's very big credit, he did not say "Ya. left wife because we haven't been intimate in years, basically and I am done". He let it be.
Did you slag wife or just TMI? What's done is done, leave it be, and let her play super in control single Mom. Why would this bother you? If it is some persona she has to project, let her project it. If it is frustrating when people give advice or input just say I'll take it into consideration and change subject if necessary. You don't have to listen, or contribute. I realize it's frustrating, but be the bigger guy here
